well, all i can do to help is provide you with something that i ran into on my site
i am running some version of WWG that is based on 6.34 (whatever was out May of 2002).... i was having this exact problem you speak of. something would happen on the server where BAM, some piece of code would spin the server out of control and prevent it from serving up pages in the exact manor you describe
i couldn't track this because i had absolutely no where to start, what to look for, etc
then by blind luck one day, there was a thread in a forum on my site that people could duplicate this happening..... clicking to open up this one thread send CPU use through the roof and locked everyone out.....
so i inspected the thread in SQL's query anaylzer.. all looked good.... then i started looking at the 3 people who had participated in that thread..... one guy was trying to use [QUOTE] in his signature (i dont have the WYSIWIG feature turned on my site)... so i took out the guy's sig, and what do you know, all was well again.....
i have modified the WWG code so much that i have no idea if this issue was my doing or not, but regardless, i now totally strip out that "forum code" in people's signatures..... it was just absolutely blind and dumb luck that i ran across the issue to be able to fix it