I get notified for all of the emails that I send out. I will give you the code for both web pages (1. The web page that sends the email out. 2.) The ASP page that adds yes to the read box in the database when someone has read a particular email.
The page that sends the email:
<%
'EmailSent.asp
%>
<%
'declare variables
'Strings for recipient, subject, boby
Dim SubjectLine, Body, EmailNum
Dim MyMail 'The Jmail object
Dim rs
'grab the variables from the form
EmailNum = Request.QueryString("EmailID")
'Declare constants for a recordset that allows adding records
dim sqlString
dim connectionString, databaseName, path
dim SEmail, Sender, EmailBody, Email
dim Name, Msg, EmailAddr
'Set connection details
sqlString = "Select * FROM Emails, Users"
'Add WHERE Join clause
sqlString = sqlString & " where Emails.EmailID=Users.EmailID"
sqlString = sqlString & " and Emails.EmailID=" & EmailNum
set rs = Server.CreateObject("ADODB.Recordset")
rs.Open sqlString, connectionString
'loop through the recordset
While Not rs.EOF
SEmail = rs("SEmail")
Sender = rs("Sender")
Name = rs("Name")