turns out I had a typo in my database file. for future godaddy hosting customers, godaddy really has a generic support system.
they are easy to get to and available 24/7, they are in the USA and speak good english

but all they could tell me was that the SQL DB is setup correctly bye bye!!
you are pretty much left in the dark for anything other then basic providing of information. I suggest anyone that has a website racking in big bucks, not to go with godaddy because if something happens you really cant get anyone behind the scenes to investigate.
as for me, my websites are small time so i get what i pay for.
Thanks, Borg and the rest of the webwiz family,
ps. I really love yourapplications and am waitng for9.0