Can't seem to get set up

So when I get to this form, I use the user with the writing permissions, correct? What about the last field? Do I leave that as-is (as DBO), or change it to the user name too?   SQL Server Username:	< name=name>
SQL Server Password:	< = name=>
SQL Server Username for creating tables	< id=user value=DBO name=user>

It was a problem on their end, which once fixed, was no longer an issue--it set up immediately. However, when I tried to get in then, I got this error:

Got it--and the forum was great in seconds. Will have great fun looking at this--appreciate your fast reponses (I received multiple posts here within hours to my web hosts single email that took days), and your advice to get me moving. It must be very well put together if I can't break it, because I do have the touch.  :)

Music God wrote: dj air wrote: means your connectiopn settings arent correct. checlk the settings, or some hosts will also checlk the file that holds the connection and alter for you. How do I check the connection settings? Which file do I need to modify?

Ok in the database_conection.asp folder I've typed in my info:

strSQLServerName = "x.x.x.x.x"
strSQLDBUserName = "Name_Name"
strSQLDBPassword = "xxxxx"
strSQLDBName = "Name_Name"

I was told set up was complete so I went to the url/forum and I get this message

Server Error in Forum Application
An error has occured while connecting to the database.
Please contact the forum administrator.

Support Error Code:- err_SQLServer_db_connection
File Name:- common.asp

Error details:-
Microsoft OLE DB Provider for SQL Server
Invalid connection string attribute

all of my information is correct and my server is running MySQL 4.1

I see no reason why this shouldn't be working does anyone know?