Ok, but that is lesser of my headaches now, the date thing for the page talked about is the problem. NOw, what do you think about this for adding headaches. Since my categorys are manually added in a admin panel, can it be put into the categories automatically by an RS? This might fixed the problem if so be it. Here is the code in the update recordset:
<table align=left>
<%
set Categories = conntemp.execute("select id, cat_name from Categories order by cat_name")
Do While Not Categories.eof
set AlreadyChecked = conntemp.execute("IF EXISTS (SELECT * FROM CategoryGirl WHERE cat_id = " & Categories(0) & " AND girl_id = " & ID & ") SELECT 1 ELSE SELECT 0")
If (AlreadyChecked(0) = 1) Then
%>
<tr>
<td align=left><input type="checkbox" class="btnbig" name="<%=Categories(0)%>" checked>
<%=Categories(1)%></td>
</tr>
<%
Else
%>
<tr>
<td align=left><input type="checkbox" class="btnbig" name="<%=Categories(0)%>">
<%=Categories(1)%></td>
</tr>
<%
set AlreadyChecked = nothing
End If
Categories.MoveNext
Loop
%>
</table>