Thanks, Borg, that would be great.
i think the best place for it is either on the login page, as you said, or the main page, like in this forum: http://forums.invisionpower.com
regarding the mail bouncing, i agree, thats probably the way to go. i'm surprised that no one has complained though, it seems that 90% of the subscribers to me forums (email compulsary) are with Hotmail or similar local free email hosts. thats might be the way to go, as for now, i have to go in and manually activate members with these types of emails... quite annoying!
thanks buddy.
Sn