Thx boRg. You are correct in your insite; I use to use phpBB on my other hosting site and it had that option. I just assumed that the email option on this one performed the same way; wrong!. I have searched for a mod and I found an interesting alternative; to have the email sent to me via the request.asp page and not the user. I know very little about asp, but was able to change the necessary files and it worked at least one time for me!
Thanks for the great application and the wonderful support! I apologize for not realizing the purpose of the email option before I started bothering you guys!
Thx!